What Does Jesus Say to the ACoN Soul?

23 Dec

Many Christians are celebrating the birth of Jesus, but some have misrepresented God by abusing others. What does Jesus actually say to the ACoN* soul?

1. I Never Planned for You to be Hurt
I have given everyone freedom of choice but some have used their freedom to harm others (Matthew 18:6). The abuse you have suffered is the result of sin damaged people living in a damaged world where my enemy is the father of lies.

2. I Came to Bring You Peace
In a world where you have been bullied and threatened nearly from birth, I came in the form of a baby (Isaiah 9:6) to bring peace and show you that as God, I am a non-threat. (What’s dangerous about a helpless baby?) As God-Man, I modeled a life of non-violence (Matthew 5:44) and the way I choose to use my power is to serve you (John 13:3-5).

3. I Won’t Condemn You
No matter what you’ve done, my middle name is forgiveness (Exodus 34:6) I didn’t come into the world to condemn you (John 3:17).  You may have other accusers, but I am not one of them (John 8:10,11).

Baby-Jesus-WM

4. I Designed You to be Free
My first gift to you is freedom of choice. Unfortunately some people use their freedom to harm others, but that’s not how I intend them to use it. I came to remove your oppression from others using their power over you (Luke 4:18) and even more to help you be free from your own mistakes. It is my will for you to have self-governance.

5. I Won’t Threaten You With Fire
Despite what many Christians believe, that’s not my style (Luke 9:54-55). Remember I am the one who teaches you to turn the other cheek and I am not a hypocrite, I will not ask you to do one thing and do another.

6. Gaslighting Never Comes From Me
I only embrace truth and I do not support lies. My enemy is a liar from the beginning (John 8:44), but the truth will set you free (John 8:32).

7. Flying Monkeys Don’t Come From Me
I always speak truth and encourage people to speak directly to each other and not through a third party (Matthew 18:15-18).

8. Your Heavenly Father Looks and Acts Just Like Me
The Father and I are one (John 10:30) and I am the exact representation of the Father (Hebrews 1:1-3). If you’ve seen me, you’ve seen the Father (John 14:9-11).

9. Please Don’t Worry About Your Future
I have good plans for you, but each day has its own trouble (Matthew 6:34). I will never leave you (Hebrews 13:5) and I am here to supply all of your needs (Philippians 4:19) and I will help you with the future.

10. I Will Never Stop Loving You
I am on your side (Romans 8:31). I love you with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 31:3). My love is not self-seeking like a narcissistic parent (1 Corinthians 13:5), I am here for you and I will win you with kindness (Romans 2:4).

*ACoN – Adult Children of Narcissists

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