Don’t Let the Narcissist Define You

One of the worst things a narcissist tries to do is label you. She/he might try to define you to yourself, your friends and family members. This is part of the gaslighting treatment and you must diligently refute these lies. When I was a young adult, I began to feel uncomfortable when the narcissist told me how... Continue Reading →

The Sound of Gravel Review

There's no place like home unless it's a shanty reeking of mice droppings without indoor plumbing and hot showers and there are live wires hidden everywhere. The house Ruth Wariner grew up in was more like a booby trap than a home. Photo by Camille Minouflet on Unsplash Located in the village of Colonia LeBaron,... Continue Reading →

Ezer Rising: the Story of Woman

In the beginning, God created Man, but Man was not all that and even though God created Man with perfection, something was missing--Man wasn't whole. The Genesis poem says God looked at Adam and said, "It's not good for Man to be alone." So God put Man to sleep and took a rib out of him to form... Continue Reading →

Go Where You are Celebrated

When Kylie found the love of her life her mother warned her he was not the kind of man she had envisioned her daughter marrying. She predicted they would be divorced in seven years. Kylie's mother was wrong. Kylie’s mother is not the kind that celebrates her daughter’s accomplishments. When Kylie decided to go to... Continue Reading →

Jesus is Coming to LOVE You–Not Hurt You!

Last night, in the middle of the night a twelve-year-old boy couldn't sleep because he was afraid of Jesus coming. He decided to search the internet and found an old blog I wrote about fear and Jesus coming, then he asked if I could please help him to not be afraid. I wasn't planning to... Continue Reading →

Why Mary Dyer Deserves Her Own Google Doodle

This is a repost from a blog I wrote three years ago. Recent events show me that Mary's story will always be relevant until religious freedom is universal.  Mary Dyer willingly walked to the gallows and was hanged 357 years ago as the first woman martyr on American soil. She had waited her turn at the gallows before. She... Continue Reading →

God Calls Women

When God created Adam in all his perfection, God declared that Adam alone was not good And so God created a woman. God created both men and women in the image of God (Genesis 1:27), but there is something unique about women. When God created Eve, God called her an "ezer kenegdo" which has been... Continue Reading →

Male Headship vs. The Headship of Jesus

If any man on this earth desires to claim true Christian headship, this is what it looks like. Photo by Naassom Azevedo on Unsplash Where equality exists, both men, and women should aim for the goal of serving like Christ. For those who grew up with the false doctrine of male headship, I have good news for... Continue Reading →

Male Headship and the Exoneration of Eve/Ezer

Have you ever made a mistake, that no one wants to forget it? For thousands of years, people have been saying, “If only Mother Eve had not tasted that fruit, we would all be sitting in paradise right now.” Eve not only has the reputation for being the first to sin, but she has passed her shame down... Continue Reading →

Male Headship and Adam’s Denial

The saying, “It’s a man’s world” is a sad reality. When one half of the human race is treated as less than and not worthy due to a missing chromosome, it gives an arbitrary picture of God.  Here are a few of the fallacies fundamentalist Christians and proponents of the false doctrine of male headship claim to... Continue Reading →

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