A typical discussion from the narcissist’s point of view.
There are basic and common phrases the narcs use:
You are not hurt.
Well you shouldn’t be hurt.
You are wrong to be hurt.
I didn’t hurt you.
You’re too sensitive.
You’re hurting me!
Anyway, it’s your own fault you got hurt.
Can’t you forgive?
I did nothing that needs forgiving.
Oh for Pete’s sake, why do you have to live in the past?
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