Resilience, Resistance

A Time to Reclaim

You know how some people don’t name the baby for a few days because they want to discover the personality?  That’s how I’ve felt about my word for 2018. Here we are ten days into the New Year and I’m just now choosing my word.  Many of my favorite writers and artists have chosen excellent words for… Continue reading A Time to Reclaim

Hope, Religious Narcia, Resistance

The Worst of Times or the Best of Times?

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.  That about sums up 2017. Of course there can still be more worse times and we all hope for better times in 2018, so even though the year is ending, the book is never closed on how bad or how good things can… Continue reading The Worst of Times or the Best of Times?

Resilience, Restoration

More Than a Cup of Kindness

All I know is that the rocking started before I even had a self and I lived through the feeling of it. I rocked until I left home. And I’m not talking about being a cool eighties, punk rocker, but more like an autistic child who rocks back and forth to shut the world out.… Continue reading More Than a Cup of Kindness

Hope, Resilience

Hope for the Holidays

If only we could live in a Hallmark Movie, maybe we’d find going home something to look forward to, but my experience in planning hallmark moments is it always turns out more like the “Home for the Holidays" movie. With some families all you can do is hunker down for a long winter’s nap and… Continue reading Hope for the Holidays

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Relationship, Self-Love

It’s Not You, It’s the Narc

When Allie met Josh, he told her she was the most beautiful woman he'd ever met and Allie believed him. For the first time in her life she felt appreciated, but her joy didn't last very long. As an ACoN* growing up with a negligent Narc father who barely noticed her, she thought she'd finally… Continue reading It’s Not You, It’s the Narc