Relationship, Self-Love

You are Glorious Scapegoat

I am not a stranger to the dark Hide away, they say 'Cause we don't want your broken parts I've learned to be ashamed of all my scars Run away, they say No one'll love you as you are But I won't let them break me down to dust I know that there's a place… Continue reading You are Glorious Scapegoat

Self-Love, Thrive

Surviving Narcissistic Abuse with the Enneagram

When Mayla began to wake up to the narcissism in her family of origin,  she was excited to share with her siblings, but it backfired and they made her the scapegoat because no one else was awake. They weren’t ready to see it, so the more she shared, the more defensive they became in their protection… Continue reading Surviving Narcissistic Abuse with the Enneagram

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Relationship, Self-Love

Five Ways the Narcissist Might Confuse You About Love

Emy hates Valentine’s Day. Growing up with a narcissistic parent,  she feels there is a love deficit in her heart. No matter how many people love her, she still feels unloved. Emy's best friend Mary keeps saying she should practice self-love so she can open her spirit up to the love that’s already around her.… Continue reading Five Ways the Narcissist Might Confuse You About Love

Religious Narcia, Women's Rights

Me too, Church too and Time’s Up

Yesterday, I listened to a survivor tell her story. She was molested in her childhood. Her pain was palpable. I wanted to beat up the man who originally abused her and all the well-meaning Christians who further abused her by invalidating her story. Then I read a blog by a Christian woman who added her… Continue reading Me too, Church too and Time’s Up

Resilience, Resistance

A Time to Reclaim

You know how some people don’t name the baby for a few days because they want to discover the personality?  That’s how I’ve felt about my word for 2018. Here we are ten days into the New Year and I’m just now choosing my word.  Many of my favorite writers and artists have chosen excellent words for… Continue reading A Time to Reclaim

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Relationship, Self-Love

It’s Not You, It’s the Narc

When Allie met Josh, he told her she was the most beautiful woman he'd ever met and Allie believed him. For the first time in her life she felt appreciated, but her joy didn't last very long. As an ACoN* growing up with a negligent Narc father who barely noticed her, she thought she'd finally… Continue reading It’s Not You, It’s the Narc